Life is somewhat always screwed up
Last week something happened to me..which was strange and funny. On of our traders asked me few weeks back whether i want be interested to go for a boatrace organized by a broker. I said Yes and requested him to book a ticket for me.. The ticket came over to the desk last week and the story starts. This guy passes me the ticket and i takes it. After a few minutes another trader comes and tells me you cant have the two tickets and that i should give the one ticket to him. I told him i cant give and tht the ticket is mine. He goes mad and goes around calling me bad words in office and tells me what an asshole selfish person i am etc. I am totally taken back. After few minutes i go and ask him why did he shout at me like that. And that why should i give the tickets to you that i booked. He then said that i never booked the ticket and that the other guy had asked arnd anyone wants the tickets and he accidently passed on to me. Here is where the big miscommunication happens. He never knew that i had prebooked the tickets and that ticket was for me. He thought that i snatched the ticket which belonged to everyone. Thts y he shouted at me. Once he knew abt it he came and said sorry to me for shouting at me...I was also wrong i should have thought y he was shouting at me and clarified with him.
This is where the importance of a relationship comes into place. Any relationship i believe needs 3 things. Mutual understanding, mutual respect and Mutual trust. Mutual understanding comes from respect for each other and respect comes from trust. And any relationship both parties should feel secure. If one doesnt and other doesnt take an effort to help him or her achieve that trust no relationship is gona work.I am in such a situation frankly. How do u get trust . U get it in a relationship wen both people makes sure that there is nothing to hide from each other. Any past or present there shouldnt be anything between 2 who are partners or who are very good friends. And that trust leads to a respect and that respect leads to an invisible mutual understanding. But wen someone approaches a relationship as and what he or she likes at that point of time then its a problem
Being a trader has its own problem. You approach things in a straight line without any diplomacy. People may not like it. But i am frankly fed up of hearing what is wrong about me from people arnd me. I cant think a single instance about the same people saying what is good abt me. It seems people whom i care just try to tell me whts wrong abt me .. Now frankly i think there is nothing good abt me.It seems and ,as people say when someone says it few times it becomes a reality, i am a pile of shit with lots of problems and no good quality for anyone close to look up to me.
So the best option is to shut ur bloody mouth up and dont expect anything from anyone and act dump. If anyone wants anything from me and if i can do it i will , if i dont like something others are doing i keep my mouth shut and if i have any issues or problems or tensions i sulk it up... Concentrate on ur career and take that as ur one and only aim in life... what i lose in my personal front i should make it up in my professional front. Its easy as my arrogant character is fit for the job i am in and as such its easy to concentrate.
I am closing this year book with a reasonable PnL. Well am i happy abt things around me. Honest answer is NO.
This is where the importance of a relationship comes into place. Any relationship i believe needs 3 things. Mutual understanding, mutual respect and Mutual trust. Mutual understanding comes from respect for each other and respect comes from trust. And any relationship both parties should feel secure. If one doesnt and other doesnt take an effort to help him or her achieve that trust no relationship is gona work.I am in such a situation frankly. How do u get trust . U get it in a relationship wen both people makes sure that there is nothing to hide from each other. Any past or present there shouldnt be anything between 2 who are partners or who are very good friends. And that trust leads to a respect and that respect leads to an invisible mutual understanding. But wen someone approaches a relationship as and what he or she likes at that point of time then its a problem
Being a trader has its own problem. You approach things in a straight line without any diplomacy. People may not like it. But i am frankly fed up of hearing what is wrong about me from people arnd me. I cant think a single instance about the same people saying what is good abt me. It seems people whom i care just try to tell me whts wrong abt me .. Now frankly i think there is nothing good abt me.It seems and ,as people say when someone says it few times it becomes a reality, i am a pile of shit with lots of problems and no good quality for anyone close to look up to me.
So the best option is to shut ur bloody mouth up and dont expect anything from anyone and act dump. If anyone wants anything from me and if i can do it i will , if i dont like something others are doing i keep my mouth shut and if i have any issues or problems or tensions i sulk it up... Concentrate on ur career and take that as ur one and only aim in life... what i lose in my personal front i should make it up in my professional front. Its easy as my arrogant character is fit for the job i am in and as such its easy to concentrate.
I am closing this year book with a reasonable PnL. Well am i happy abt things around me. Honest answer is NO.
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